Tere! ("Hello," for all you non-Estonians.) Would you believe that "tere" is essentially the extent of the Estonian I picked up this last week? Embarrassing.
Today at the airport, we had at least 20 family members see us off. (Aren't they the best?) I was chatting with one of my young relatives as we waited, and she asked what the best and the worst parts of my trip were. The first part of my response came quickly: meeting the family was the best! It was so amazing to hear their stories, pore over old pictures, and meet the people who share my history and even my features.
The worst part? This response came nearly as easily. I hated not knowing Estonian. (This actually was second to worst. The worst was when one of my relatives made me take a swig of moonshine. Blech.) There were many moments where I missed a story or joke because it was told in Estonian. Everyone was so good about including me, but I felt like a nuisance to make them translate or switch to English. It really came down to my pride- I felt stupid! My relatives all claim to have terrible English, yet most speak it quite fluently. In addition, most know Russian, Finnish, and sometimes German. Talk about feeling inadequate! Nevertheless, they inspired me to learn about other cultures and increase my knowledge of the world.
Sharing my best and worst moment is hardly an adequate representation of the trip, so without further ado, here is a list of highlights from Estonia:
1. Cabbage soup
I was told it was compulsory to try this greenish liquid. I'm happy I did! This traditional Estonian soup is a staple at my relatives' get-togethers. Two bowls of soup later, I appeased Heli, my grandmother's sister.
Heli is exactly what I think of when I imagine a stereotypical grandmother. She isn't happy until you have eaten, and then had seconds...and thirds....and then she insists you take food home as well. (Sounding familiar, Mom?) She also doesn't speak any English, so our entire relationship was centered on many smiles, hugs, and her giving me food and mittens she knit herself. She lives on the farm where she and my grandmother were born, and she works very hard to keep it beautiful. Imagine a cute red house and rows and rows of flowers, vegetables, apple trees...lovely!
Dad and I spent our last night at the farm. We were there for over 8 hours, but the time flew as we ate, drank, and talked with over 30 of our Estonian relatives. My favorite night of the trip!
2. Seeing the swamps
You knew I was going to say that, didn't you? I admit, I wasn't super excited about this outing, but it surprised me! Swamps in Estonia are different than swamps in the movie Shrek, for example. Estonia is actually quite famous for these beautiful bodies of water. Dad and I hiked a loop around a swamp with Kuldar and Silvi, two of our wonderful relatives. Kuldar tried to convince me swim in it (which is actually normal to do), but I decided to save it for next time.
3. Parliament
We have a relative who is a member of Parliament! He gave us a special tour, introduced us to the Speaker of the House, and took us on a hike up Tall Hermann, one of the many famous towers in Estonia. I'm pretty nerdy, so I thought this was a very interesting experience.
4. FOOD
I'm pretty sure I gained 5 pounds this week, but it was totally worth it. Fish, bread, amazing potato salad, bread, cake, fresh fruit, more bread, more cake...(I'm a bit confused where this 5 pounds came from!) I could write a whole blog post on food, but I'll save the minute details for my sisters. :) Let's just say that my family took very good care of us!
Ok, it's time to wrap up the post for tonight. The church service tomorrow is all in Czech, so if I have any hope of understanding it, I need a good night's sleep.
Our trip to Estonia was full of so many special moments, and this really just scratches the surface. I am so thankful God has given me this opportunity to learn about my roots. Sisters and Mom, everyone wants to meet you, so start saving up for your plane ticket. Who knows- maybe next time I will be able to say more than "Tere!"